Looks or Personality?

I've been rather busy and I have to apologize for that, my life has been caught up in school. BUT now I'm back and I'm discussing a topic that for a few people can have a huge effect on their self Esteem. So here's my question to you: Do you go for looks or personality? And be honest, because I think it's time that people finally realize the true beauty of inner beauty and not outer beauty. Yeah sure you should be attracted to the person you like, but does their looks have to be an requirement for you to at least be friends or even more? Recently I went to a party, and this guy had told me that I'm not the most attractive girl here but I am friendly. My response: What the Cabbage? What do my looks have to do with anything? So there I was talking to a pretty decent guy...feeling not good enough. Yes, the very confident Candice felt like dirt. All because a guy told me that I didn't pass his requirements to be his friend or more? And that had taken its toll on me, every time I wake up in the morning, I don't feel good enough, every time I have a conversation with a guy the thoughts that play in my head are: "He doesn't find you attractive, so why bother?" But why should I be taken a back by a guy who only meet me? Wise words from my mom : "Personality is the most important thing because at the end of the day that's the only thing that'll never change" If you still think that looks are important, then that is your decision, I'm not trying to change your views but I am trying to make you aware of what effect you can have on people, even though you think you don't you still do. And I end off with a thought: Would you rather have a boyfriend/ girlfriend who's dorky, but a total sweetheart? Or would you have a really hot guy/girl who is a player and flirts with everyone ? (Might be a generalization, but half of the time it is true). Think about that. 

Till Next Time and I mean it this time...  (1 August 2013)

Love 

Candice