Friday 27 December 2013

6 Guys You Shouldn't Date.

Some men have that natural charm and women tend to flock to them when given a chance. But there are some whom a woman would never want to be in proximity with. He's the guy who can be the reason behind a drastic change in moods. While you're wondering the kind of man you should hide from, here's the checklist of guys you should avoid.

1. Mr. Volatile
One moment, everyone's eyeing this extra caring, super-hot boyfriend of yours while the next, he's just indifferent and you're left wondering WTH just happened. We won't call this man one with mood swings because that is acceptable, considering how often we PMS. But he's the kind of a man who is so volatile, you'll have all the answers, yet be clueless about his weird behaviour.

2. The 'I-me-myself' guy
Go to a restaurant with him, he'll be kind enough to let you check the menu, but will choose what he wants. Talk to him over the phone, you'll find conversations start with how his day was and ends with the goals of his life. And while you're thinking of a beach destination for that annual relaxation holiday, you'll end up going to a desert just because he wants a camel ride. He's selfish. Stay with him to be unhappy for the rest of your life.

3. The 'Aww-I'm-just-a-kid' man
This guy just hasn't grown up. He's so happy extending his childhood days that he will mistake you for his momma. If you're willing to tie his shoelace, select clothes for that everyday outing of his, cook for him and feed him, among doing his other chores,I will say, go for him.

4. The sleaze-ball
He flirts with every woman on the planet - his receptionist, the waitress, the woman who comes to take out garbage, the stranger at the super market and even your best friend. His history can make you uncomfortable and you just know he's not the kind who'll be serious with anyone. Avoid this man who's only about sex, sex and just sex, unless you're looking for someone to play with too.

5. 'I-need-you-so-much' fella
This Mr Clingy is a total no-no to be with. He's so insecure and doubtful about things in life, all he's looking for is reassurance. And here's what he comes with: a truck full of emotions. Trust us, you wouldn't want to be a shoulder to this man, who goes sob, sniff, sob every single minute when he's with you.

6. The predictable guy
This one's as predictable as a bimonthly auto rickshaw fare hike in Delhi. You just know what he's thinking or is about to do. Yes, we're talking about (yawn) the guy who has just no surprises to offer you, because well, not only is he predictable, but he's way too boring, so much so that we know for certain you'll gauge him in just a month.

Friday 6 December 2013

What's the real essence of Beauty?

It's 7:00AM. 
You wake up. 
You quickly rush to the mirror.
What you see in this silver exact object, upsets you. 
Your face, your eyes, your ears, your nose. 
Your arms, your waist, your thighs, your ankles. 
All you can do is stare....
Stare at this living human being
With a beating heart,
But that doesn't satisfy you. 
You are still upset with your reflection, 
Upset at yourself
Upset at how you look like. 
People continuously comment on your features:
They continuously comment on how you're too:
Skinny,fat,ugly,normal,bland,boring.



All these comments can have an effect on people, everyday society is judging you based on your looks and not on your personality. I guess the saying goes: "What you see is what you get.", but is it really? Surely after a period of time these "looks" fade away and the only thing you are left with is the soul and personality of the person. So why is it worth to judge a person on their looks when it is not going to be there forever? Why must a person constantly have to look in the mirror every single day to wonder whether society will accept us or not. I'm not trying to make people feel guilty, but all I'm simply trying to do is to make people aware of what they say and the impact their words can have. After all it is words that have a stronger and much more detrimental effect on ones psychological and social well being. All I'm stating in this article is to accept people for who they are. No matter where they are from, no matter how they look like, no matter what size they are, I still believe that everyone is beautiful. And it just takes one to see the essence of that real beauty. Being beautiful is not wearing heavy makeup or wearing expensive designer clothes, or having boobs hanging out of your shirt, or your ass hanging out of shorts. Beauty does not require any of these possessions. It just requires an awareness of self and the confidence of knowing that you are beautiful. 

Just remember, EVERYTIME you see yourself in the mirror, don't be upset. Simply smile at yourself and be proud of who you are. 


After all you are going to be stuck with the body you have, might as well treat it with love. 



Love

Candice.C